Today in our society many ladies have wondered why they are are still single, despite having all the qualities needed in a woman but yet no man is willing to marry them.
Yes it true no one is ready to marry them! Why because they are some silly things women do which they think is right and definitely those things are what ruined their relationship.
However some ladies choose to be single because they think it better to remain single than to be in a relationship with someone who fills your heart with doubts. This category of ladies have experienced huge failures in their past relationship.
Today I present to you some few things you should stop doing if you don’t want to remain single forever as a lady.
Below are some of the things ladies do that hinder them from getting married. Therefore if you want to finally settle in your own home as a married woman, then you most avoid doing these things to your partner;
1. Don’t dishonor your partner:
Suggestions included: Stop all nagging and don’t correct your boo in front of others. If you finish your partner’s sentences, you may be unintentionally communicating, “I don’t really care about what you have to say.”
No man will be happy to marry a nagging woman or woman with no respect and regard.
2. Don’t put others before your partner:
God designed companionship in dating so that a man and a woman can meet one another’s need for a close, intimate, human relationship. He even said in the book of Genesis 2:18, “It is not good that the man should be alone.”
So what happens when you put your mother, a friend, or even a child before your partner? Actually, you take a step (often unintentional) toward isolation in your relationship.
If you choose, for example, to spend an afternoon shopping with your mom when your boo asked you to watch a football game with him, you may leave him feeling that he has second place in your heart. This may definitely cause him not to think of marrying you.
3. Don’t follow Everything YOU hear:
This is another important advice at this stage of the relationship that should be taken serious, especially by the feminine gender.
At this stage, you would be told a lot of things and be given a lot of advise by friends, relations and a host of others. Be careful who you heed counsel. Because they may destroy your relationship which you took years building.
4. Don’t Reveal your Relationship secrets to others:
There are certain secrets that should be between just you and your partner, especially when you are preparing to marry each other. Keep certain things to yourself rather than tell it to everyone who’s ready to listen.
5. Don’t think it’s Okay to Love less:
It’s never okay to love your partner less, not at any stage. The fact that you’ve agreed to marry the man of your dreams doesn’t mean you should relax and love him less. Never stop giving your all, never stop loving your man totally and never stop working hard to keep the relationship strong.
6. Don’t Assume:
Assumption is a tricky habit that could stylishly destroy your relationship even at the stage of getting married. Be sure to ask your partner of anything that you aren’t sure of. Assuming things could lead to bad blood even destroyed the relationship.
7. Don’t be insecured:
An insecure woman is a woman who can make a life of her partner a living hell. She will make little things seem big and complicated. She will call and text him incessantly just to figure out what he is up to.
An insecure woman won’t appreciate her boo having friends of the opposite sex. Therefore as a man he cannot expect trust in a relationship like this, so he won’t marry such an insecure woman.
8. Don’t be too materialistic:
Well, there is nothing really wrong in liking materialistic things. However if a girl is with a man only because he shower her with gifts, then maybe it is time she think about where she want to take the relationship to.
If a woman constantly talks about getting her gifts, shopping for her, taking her out to fancy dinners and is never available when you need her emotionally, then this is the type of woman you should not marry.
9. Finally don’t lie to partner:
If a man is dating you and you consistently lies about things in and outside the relationship, then you should know that that man will never marry you, because no man can be in a marriage where he is constantly being lied to.
These nine things are things that should be stopped by all means if you want your relationship to move smoothly from that point of engagement to marriage.